In the book, “The other Wes Moore,” each Wes Moore had a different perspective of masculinity was. The author Wes Moore, had a view that there were certain things a man was supposed to do as part of being considered a man. Growing up with a male figure such as his father, it helped him define masculinity and get a better understanding and have an example of how to carry yourself as a man. It taught you the responsibilities that go along with being a man. Wes Moore didn’t figure out the roles and responsibilites right away. It took some time but all that matters is that he figured it out. The way he proved his masculinity is the way most of today’s society views masculinity.
As for the other Wes Moore, his view of masculinity is what society would look down on today. Wes Moore has the mindset of a thug, or someone who was trying to prove themself to others who in the end really didn’t matter. Now that he’s incarcerated, where are his “buddies” and all the street gangs he was trying to prove a point to? Either incarcerated or still on the streets minding their business not thinking about him. If they’re still on the streets, they have time still to prove what masculinity is. Wes Moore showed masculinity by doing certain crimes. He looked to his brother Tony, who did illegal acts to earn money and because Wes Moore didn’t have a male figure in his life, he looked to his brother and he followed him. So Wes Moore grew up thinking hustling and earning money anyway he could, illegal or legal ways.
When it comes to masculinity, I think of more than one way to define masculinity. There are three ways to define what masculinity is. The first one is the biological meaning that refers to sexual characteristics. The second one is sociological meaning that refers to the way society sees the roles men and women play. The third one is psychological meaning referring to certain traits that males and females have.
Sexual characteristics is one way to define masculinity. Most men have broad shoulders, are built bigger than women, and are taller most of the time. Sexual characteristics do include reproductive organs that distinguish males from females. In today’s society, masculinity is no longer just based on gender. There are masculine females and feminine males. It is more accepted now than before. If you see a female dressed like a male, you’re going to think she’s masculine. If you see a male dressed like a female, you’re going to think he’s feminine. Also, the way they carry themselves. The way society view you and the roles you play during your daily life. Psychological, which is referring to certain traits that males and females carry have to deal with roles also, as well as traits they possess. When you think of a male, you think of his being dominate, being the man of the household, providing for the family, taking care of business, etc. This is how it’s supposed to be but now a days, this isn’t always the case. There are a lot of dominate females who play male roles because they feel more comfortable and don’t want to have to ever depend on anyone.
I believe that my view of masculinity follows under the author Wes Moore because there are just some things you do and some things you don’t. I am a positive person and I feel that the way the other Wes Moore saw masculinity is negative and with a mindset like that, you’re going to end up in trouble. I think it has to do with your environment as well. Growing up I knew a lot of boys who didn’t have a father figure, or any male figure in their life and grew up around all women. Believe me when I said it was easy to tell, it was easy. Just by the way they acted and carried theemself. That’s because that’s all they knew. So in this story, they have different definitions of masculinity because of how they grew up and the type of household they were raised in.